I will tell you more about me and see if I scare you away : ). I have been married before. I was 24 and she was perfect! Smart, pretty and loved me back. We had two beautiful children (Olivia- girl and Mackenzie- boy). We were married for ten years and built a great life. I was very happy and moved my way up in the real estate business. Something then changed in her and she went kind of crazy. She left me and the kids without looking back so I raised my kids on my own for the past 8 years. I was not the best parent in the world but did my best and always loved them. My daughter is now 18 and living on her own with her boyfriend back in my home area of New Hampshire US (near Boston) so it's just my 14 year old son and me now. we call ourselves "one and a half men". When I was a child my grandmother came to St. Lucia with the Peace Corps to help as a volunteer nurse. She ended up loving it and never came back. I think it was childhood memories that drew me back here three years ago. My friends and family love it here and visit whenever they can. I mention all this because everyone always told me how rare a person my gram was to pick up and move to a new country on her own and make it work. Now I have done it and am actually looking for another person considering a whole new life away from everything they have ever known too. By the way, I love the decision I made! I own a tour company here called LucianStyle. We work with tourist from all over the world every day. They come to us looking to have fun and we make sure they do. St Lucia is the honeymoon capital of the world so I meet a lot of couples. I most wonder what you picture your ideal life like. I can picture a few perfect scenarios for mine. I would live my adventure with a best by my side. She loves only me and shows it. She likes my business and works with me sometimes. She takes care of herself but isn't obsessed with makeup and clothes. She loves the Caribbean climate and lifestyle. She likes kisses and back rubs. She is not uptight and bossy. She is not bored and longing for her old lifestyle but excited and ready for her new one. She is someone i can take care of but she can (and wants to) take care of me as well. There are no womanly duties in my mind. I have a housecleaner and eat out a lot. On the other hand, back in my married days, I used to cook with my wife all the time. We did the best thanksgiving dinners ever. My house doesn't require services as much as it requires a feminine touch. Its a house, not a home and that's what's missing. I think the most important thing is real intentions. Relationships never ever work if they do not start off sincere and for the right reasons. It will never be perfect but everything is better as a team. I am a smart hard working man who loves his family and would never hurt a soul. I am affectionate and will always be there for the ones I love. Where is my sweet little Juliette?